THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE TO ENGAGEMENT PORTRAITS

If you’ve read my post “Why Do You Need Engagement Photos? 7 Top Reasons” chances are you’ve booked an engagement shoot! Here is my definitive guide to engagement portraits full of my best tips, reminders and planning advice for couples before their engagement photo shoot.

Scheduling

The first step is locking in your date so your photographer can reserve your session. I typically recommend scheduling your engagement photos at least 4–7 months before your wedding, especially if you plan to use the images for save the dates or invitations. Earlier is always better when possible, so you have plenty of time to design and send everything out.

My engagement sessions are usually around 1 hour, and I almost always recommend scheduling in the late afternoon leading into sunset. For example, if sunset is at 7:30 PM, we’ll plan to begin around 5:30 PM. This gives us the best natural light and allows us to shoot through golden hour for that soft, flattering glow. Arriving on time is key so we can make the most of that window without feeling rushed.

Location

Choosing your location is one of the most fun parts, and you have so much flexibility. Unlike your wedding day, you’re not tied to a venue, you can choose a setting that reflects your style, whether that’s the beach, desert, mountains, or something more architectural or botanical.

When selecting a location, consider the season and environment. A spot that’s beautiful in one time of year may look very different in another. Thinking ahead about weather, foliage, and overall atmosphere will help ensure the setting aligns with the look you’re going for.

Logistics

Once you’ve chosen a location, it’s important to think through the practical details. Consider travel time, traffic, and parking, and plan accordingly so you can arrive relaxed and on schedule. Some locations may require a bit of walking, so bringing comfortable shoes for in between shots is always a good idea.

It’s also helpful to check if your chosen location hosts events, as that can impact crowds, access, and overall experience.

Some locations require a photography permit for professional sessions. These requirements are typically outlined on the location’s website and must be secured in advance. I’m always happy to help guide you toward the right information and flag when a permit may be needed, but clients are ultimately responsible for obtaining any required permits and covering associated fees.

Lastly, keep in mind what amenities are (or aren’t) available. Not all locations have restrooms or changing areas, so it’s best to plan ahead if needed.

What to wear

For engagement sessions, I recommend keeping things simple, elevated, and true to you. Since sessions are about an hour, one strong outfit works beautifully, with the option to bring a layer or accessory (like a jacket or sweater) for a bit of variety.

Focus on pieces that complement each other rather than match exactly. Soft, neutral tones tend to photograph best and create a timeless, light feel, while bold colors or busy patterns can be more distracting. Avoid large logos, graphics, or anything overly busy.

Most importantly, choose outfits that fit well and that you feel confident and comfortable in. If you’d like a second opinion, I’m always happy to review options and help you refine your look.

Finishing touches

Small details make a big difference. Make sure your ring is clean so it photographs beautifully, and consider keeping jewelry simple and refined. Since your hands will be visible in many images, neat nails or a fresh manicure go a long way.

For grooms, I typically recommend skipping watches, especially smart watches, as they can stand out in photos. Thoughtful touches like clean shoes and polished styling help everything come together seamlessly. Plan your hair and makeup in a way that feels like an elevated version of your everyday look.

Posing & Inspiration

If you have specific ideas or ways you’d like to use your photos, save the dates, website banners, guest books, feel free to share that with me in advance so I can photograph with those uses in mind.

You’re also welcome to send inspiration or a Pinterest board if you have one. That said, you don’t need to worry about knowing how to pose. I’ll guide you throughout the session with direction that feels natural and relaxed, while also giving you plenty of variety so your gallery feels full and complete.

What to bring?

Keep it simple. I recommend bringing:

• Comfortable shoes for walking between spots

• A light layer if needed

• A small bag with water and any quick touch-up essentials

• Any required permits (if applicable)

If you’d like to incorporate a small prop, like a blanket or flowers, you’re welcome to, but it’s completely optional.

Final Thoughts

Most importantly, just enjoy it. This session is about celebrating your engagement and spending intentional time together. You don’t need to worry about doing everything perfectly, some of the best moments come from simply being yourselves.

Have fun with it, lean into the experience, and trust the process. You’ll walk away with beautiful images, but also with memories from this season of your life that you’ll always look back on 🤍

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